Handling a baby for the initial few months will be a challenging and tiresome job for the mother. The only mode of communication for a newborn is crying. But sometimes we will be clueless on why a baby cries. Here are a few reasons for a babys fussiness and we have also discussed some ways on how to soothe a fussy newborn.
Last Updated: Oct 22, 2020 11:29 GMT
A fussy newborn
It is completely normal for a newborn to cry and fuss. We must listen to our baby’s cry, find out the reason and respond appropriately. It is estimated that standard infant fussiness may last for an average of 2 to 4 hours per day. As a newborn is approaching an entirely new world, the fussiness may start at 2 to 3 weeks, may peak at six weeks and diminish during 3 to 4 months.
Fussiness tends to occur more common in the evening, especially right before your little one is going to have long stretches of sleep.
Some reasons for your baby’s cry
Some of the more common causes of fussiness in babies are hunger, oversupply syndrome or providing too much milk, low milk supply, diaper rash, thrush, food sensitivities and nipple confusion. Some of the other reasons for fussiness include over tiredness, over stimulation, loneliness and discomfort.
· Always keep a track on their feeding time. Do not follow a strict schedule. When your child shows signs of hunger, feed her.
· Some babies may cry if they are uncomfortable with hot or cold weather. In such instances, dress them appropriately.
· Always change the diaper. Sometimes wet or soiled diapers may irritate them.
· When your baby is sick or has gastroesophageal reflux (GER), she may cry. Always notice the health issues and act accordingly.
Some ways to soothe a fussy newborn
Here are a few strategies you can try to calm your fussy newborn. Some may work for a few days. You have to keep discovering new ways as per your little ones needs. Have patience.
1. Swaddling: Swaddling with a thin blanket may soothe her and provide her a feeling of comfort and secureness.
2. Burping: It is always a good practice to gently burp after every feed. This will help her in digestion and avoid crying due to uneasiness in the stomach.
3. Touch: Some comforting touch like massages, bouncing; placing baby across your lap, giving a back rub, singing or speaking softly can help to calm down your baby. Make eye contact and talk with her. Show her colored toys and objects.
4. Sounds: Babies are always familiar with sounds when they are inside the womb. So you can turn on some soothing sounds like “white noise” (humming sound of a fan, vacuum cleaner, and dishwasher) or the recording of a heartbeat.
5. Rocking: You can gently do rocking motions to soothe her. This also gives a feel they are in the womb. If you are tired, you can use a rocking chair.
6. Do not overfeed: Do not overfeed your child. Sometimes this can also be a reason for her cry. Wait for 2 to 2.5 hours or until she shows signs of hunger.
7. Pacifier: Babies always like sucking. You can offer a pacifier to calm them.
8. Dress: Always place your baby in a room that is neither too cold nor too hot. If they are uncomfortable with their dress, change it.
9. Change in diet: Some babies may cry if they are sensitive to any kind of food. If you are breastfeeding, you can change your diet by avoiding dairy products and gassy foods. If you are giving formula milk to your baby, you can try changing the formula to a hypoallergenic one to avoid the discomfort.
10. Sleep: A good sleep provides the best calm and comfort to your baby. When they sleep, avoid flashy and bright lights and minimize the noise in the surrounding. Co sleeping with your child will also reduce her fussiness.
11. Go outside: You can take your little one for a car ride. Take a walk with your baby in a stroller and show them some scenery. A different atmosphere may calm her.
12. Ask help: Sometimes you may be physically tired and mentally exhausted from taking care of your child. Always ask for emotional support. Listen to music and calm down. De-stress yourself for a while and transfer the job to your partner. Once you are relaxed and back to form, resume the job.
Newborns can express their needs only through a cry. Always listen to their cues and act. Motivate yourself that you can handle your little one better and best all the time. This will strengthen your bond with your child. Happy parenting!